Try an Ideal Parent Figure Meditation

The Three Pillars Model
Comprehensive education on the model that heals anxious-proccupied, dismissing, and disorganized attachment is available within the 2016 textbook by Daniel P. Brown and David S. Elliott, Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for Comprehensive Repair (752 pages)
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IPFP Meditation
Imagine feeling yourself as a young child and engaging with ideal parent figures (IPFs) who are securely attached.
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Metacognition
Enhance Metacognition and Mentalizing. (Similar to Mindfulness Meditation.)
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Collaboration
Focus on collaborative verbal and non-verbal communication to promote secure attachment.
More Effective
Avoids Trauma Processing
The 3 Pillars Model sometimes resolves trauma without processing it — a gift because “trauma processing” can re-traumatize those with disorganized attachment.
Resolves Insecurity
Along with supporting a move into secure attachment (as measured by the AAI), the model can be used prior to trauma processing to resolve attachment insecurity.